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Is it important to consider others?

Most of the young adults would have thought about this at least once, that their childhood days are awesome when compared to their current situation.
 As a child we didn't had any responsibility for the development of our family , but as we grow older and older we will be the common factor to judge the quality of the family, we are in a situation to act with maturity. 
People around us keep on judging us by the school or college where we are studying , if it's a popular school then they assume that the family is in a state where there is no economical crisis. If we are studying in a college that is not that much popular or standard than our school then they start judging about our academics. If you are interested in fine arts or sports or some other field that is apart from academics they again start to judge about us. 
  As we grow older and older we are being judged a lot by the people surrounding us. These people are here just to simply taunt us not to motivate us.
  Due to all these judgements even our parents are pushed to a situation to make us to do things that doesn't damage the status of the family among the third party's minds. By running 🏃🏃 behind all these judgements we loose our selfness. 
  Now let's lookback at our childhood we did what we wanted and what we loved to do. But now due to all these judgements we are pushed to not do things that would be questioned by others. If you excel in dance or music or sports people doesn't consider that as much the excellence in academics is considered. If we respond to all these judgements we'll definitely lose our interest towards life even it gets bored when you do things for others. So do things that makes you happy.
  Yes you are responsible for the development of your family but you are not responsible for the judgments of others. 
  Others are always others i.e they are not inside your life. The things to consider is that no one is being hurt by you because of your activities and consider the judgements of your well wishers as they are with us to show us a path to live a good life and they never make fun of our mistakes they recover us from those mistakes
. Life is short live it to your interest without hurting others.
  Apologize me if there are any mistakes I just shared my thoughts nothing that much interesting.

                       Thank you

    

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