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Never allow someone to ruin your happiness

Have you ever faced this situation of being not able to express how you feel the moment just because of the only reason that the person is from your tribe?.
     
        Sometimes it is good to keep quiet to avoid arguments but its not necessary to give others a chance to hurt you , especially never give a chance to your tribe to make you feel down.

       Highlight these things in your mind that

  •         Noone has the power to push you down.
  •         You are not someone's playtoy.
  •         You deserve to be treated good.
  •          You dont want to be polite with those people who make you feel gloomy.



     No , dont think about that , you dont want to make a fight or an argument which makes the situation worse. Just try to say something that has the meaning of, "You dont have the right to say that" with a calmness. Sometimes your calmness can explain how fierced you are.And importantly dont store this worst experience in your mind , as this experience can only fetch you negative vibes.

     Yes , I can guess your next question "Should I want to be like this even if the fault is on my side?" . Certainly not, at this situation you should have the maturity to accept your flaws. Critics are different from a well-wisher or mentor.

      Be bold enough to express things that should not be done with you by your tribe. The reason why I am incisting a lot about is that , You tribe has the strength to bring you both to heights and also to pits. Yes I said earlier about this that "noone has the power to put you down" , yes it is true but your tribe can influence you without your conciousness. Let me explain this in detail in the upcoming posts.If you are not happy with your tribe then just leave it. You dont need something that push you down or demotivate you or make you feeel uncomfortable. 

    You are in this world to be happy and to spread happiness not to be criticized or not feel gloomy.

Always say this,

"This is my life , my story , my book I will no longer let anyone else to write it "

******************                    SPREAD HAPPINESS         *************************

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