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Things to avoid if you want to make others feel comfortable

Hiiiiiiii dear readers you are motivating me a lot. The reason behind this is because we have reached 20 views for the last post :). Sounds silly for being happy for a tiny thing even though that is not an achievement right??  Haha yes as said earlier happiness can be found everywhere and you can feel happy even for simple things. Though reaching 20 views doesn't matter for someothers, it matters a lot to me as I have 20 people to spend their precious time to read my post :). So thanks a lot lot for that (do you all know onething I myself viewed my post for a couple of times sounds silly rightt????).Simply you guys are great :):). With nomore delay lets jump into our today's topic.

             The situations mentioned here are happened to me. I felt hurt due to these experiences , but instead of compiling these as complaints lets learn something from these experiences.Simple, think others like you then you wont hurt others. Let me share some of those experiences with you.



  1. Dont behave rude with your non tribe people. Yes , you are not that much close that person but what's the reason to be rude with that person?


      2. Never do criticism about someone's appearance. Appearance doesn't matter right?? All your beauty is about how you treat people and how your heart is not how is face or skin tone or you body is , so simple. Though these words sounds dramatic they are true. Consider that you are being iltreated by a person who has a beautiful outlook will you accept their beauty? .

     3. Never give a bad comment about others in public. If you want to frankly share that bad comment with person then you can decently convey that privately and you are not judge to judge about all others.

    4.Don't irritate aperson with your stupid mobile phone. Sometimes these mobile phones are the reason for being dudevorced (separation between two friends). Yes your phone is important, your social media's unknown friends are important but a real person in you life who takes care about you, who wants to spend time with you is more important than those things mentioned above.

    5.Again this one is also about mobile phones. Imagine yourself talking about something important to your friend , what is he/she replies you without an interest by using his/her mobile phone. Literally how I feel will be like to chop that idiotic machine which brings a separation in my relationship with my friend. 
          So don't do this if you want a healthy relationship with your friend and if you want your mobile phone safely :):)

   6.Most importantly don't act like that you know everything. Whenever you create a scene of that you know everything say this to your mind          
                                EMPTY VESSEL MAKES MUCH NOISE  
While sharing this with you I remember one post in pinterest that had these words.
            Don't act like that you know everything unless your name is google       (just kidding)

    7.Most important thing, If you are surrounded with your two friends then don't concentrate only towards a single person as the person left alone may feel bad. Imagine if you are pushed to that condition how it would be , it would make you feel sad right? then why should you want to do this with the other person when your motive is to SPREAD HAPPINESS.

    8. Never behave rude with the person who's only intension was to make you feel happy. I have seen these people who keep on shouting about the people who help them to overcome their bad situation. This thing makes everyone to feel that they should never help you even if you ask them.

   9. Don't be angry with your mom. Mom is the only creature in this world to think about you all the day. Realising later that you did something that made your mom feel bad will make you terrible.

  10. Try to use kind words with people. Pronouncing some kind words doesn't reduce your dignity. How would you feel if someone throws harsh words towards you for no reason?

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