How to handle dominative people?

Hi, guys.....
In this blog we are going to discuss on the topic of how to handle with dominative people.

I too don't know about handling the dominative people. But I can share some of my thoughts about surviving with these people.

We get irritated by these people but don't burst out or make yourself feel down.

I felt down when I was dominated by a person. I hated myself for not standing up for myself.

But later I realised that what's wrong with me?

There is a saying
"Empty vessel makes much noise"

And in Tamil there is an awesome explanation saying that a well grown crop plant always stays humble but the plants in the beginning of their growth will lift its head.

This is a clear example that WE ARE HUMBLE PERSON. :)

If you don't make this dominative person's silly things into an issue say this thing to yourself that you are a matured person.

Don't turn furious towards me, this thing may seem like that I am saying to lose your self esteem with that person. It's not like that. In my opinion staying calm in uncontrollable situation makes you broad view.

So don't turn furious towards a person who dominates you. Just make them feel that their domination means nothing to you.

ACTION SPEAKS A LOT THAN YOUR MOUTH

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