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Adjustment v/s Understanding

Understanding is one of the main criteria to maintain any relationship a good one, that may be your family or friends or soul mate or co-worker or classmate or anyone with whom you spend some time everyday.

Adjust with the people surrounding you
Understand the people you love

There is difference between these two things

Adjustment is done to avoid unwanted clash between our classmates or neighbours or co-workers.
understanding is seeing your close one's position in your perspective and reacting according to that.

In adjustment you feel that you are changing yourself for an unwanted person. But in understanding you do that because you feel that you are responsible for making your loved on happy.
Eg : Your are rushing up with group of people to get into a train. Here you will move with a feel to get into the train as soon as possible but you try not to annoy your surrounding people.
But when you are going with your mom, then you tend to make her feel comfortable first and then you enter into the train.

So these are the difference between adjustment (3rd person) and understanding.

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