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Don't help them

Most of the times your helping tendency is misunderstood like YOU ARE AVAILABLE FOR THEM EVERYTIME AND YOU SHOULD DO THE WORK. Only few people ask help truly. The term truly explains  that they really need a help from you. But, most of the people don't ask you help, they order you like that you are their servant. They can do the work without you but they use you to do their work and at the end they show off as like they did that work.

ITS INSANE TO BE WITH THESE STUPID PEOPLE.

 At the first they ask you whether you can help them or not, but later they will be like "Hey you... come and do this. I need the work to be done immediately". These words are accepted is your besties say to you. But, these words are not accepted when a timely person (The one who talks to you only when they need a help) says this to you. And you don't need to do that work. Helping is different form working for a person.

So before you help someone just think that do they deserve your help. HELPING OUR FRIENDS IS THE MUST EVEN ITS NOT CALLED AS HELP ITS OUR RESPONSIBILITY TO SHARE THEIR LITTLE WORK WITH US. 

 Be careful with these people who order you without any relationship with you.

Again repeating its your responsibility to do things for your friends.
All am saying is DONT BE THE PERSON WHO IS EASILY AVAILABLE BECAUSE YOU HAVE YOUR OWN VALUE

                                  START LOVING YOURSELF
                                                           ALWAYS KNOW YOUR VALUE


                                                      

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