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 I saw Madan Gowri's yesterday video

Link : https://youtu.be/CnQWQt9zI30

This video is under the topic "Me too India".
     In this video he shared things which comes under harassment.
      Under those points there was a point,
   
"If a guy see a girl below her neck that also comes under harassment".
Most of the people is trying to protect the women from harassment but do you believe some girls enjoy that 😑. Because of these people there arises problem for other girls too.

  There is a quote :
          Don't judge a girl by what they wear and what you hear.
Before beginning this post I want to say something that am a Feminist.
Wishes of this feminist,
  1.  A woman should be something more than being beautiful
  2.  A girl should be taught things more than a guy
  3. She should create her own dignity
  4. Every woman should be an inspiring person
  5.  A girl has more social responsibility than a boy
I strongly believe that there is more contribution of women than men in the development of a proper society.

But, does every woman know their responsibility?

There are many girls who are striving to bring achievements to this women society. 

Let me come to the point,
       Everyone has the right to dress up the way they like. It's the person's built in right. They can expose what ever they want to, am not against this.
      Some girls objectify themself. And am totally against this

Note : I intentionally said some, that clearly explains that am not mentioning all the women. 

And these girls objectify other girls too. 
I heard this discussion between two students (one is senior and the another on is junior). Among these two, one girl  (senior) wears dress that clearly portray her structure and that is her own wish and this doesn't made me to think bad about her, it's the words.
             The girl (senior) was saying to the another girl (junior) that, "A girl ask me that why are you wearing a so tight dress, that seems glamorous and try to change that. And you know what I replied to her? I said her that you don't have anything and so you don't want to wear a shaped dress I have something so am interested in exposing mine"
           And after hearing those words the junior said to her that, "Yes akka it's our own right, what you said was 100% correct"

I was shocked what type of conversation is this? Being a senior she should sow good thoughts to a little girl but what she did is absolutely against the views of a feminist.

        FEMINIST DONT OBJECTIFY ANYONE
If a guy had this kind of conversation then we will definitely rise against him. The same should happen when a girl does this.

EXPECT EQUALITY IN EVERYTHING

And girls, never objectify anyone we should be like role model to our next generation. If a girl objectify herself, will she bring out a good generation? How can she bring a man with high quality in thoughts to this society.

A WOMAN SHOULD BE SOMETHING MORE THAN BEING BEAUTIFUL.
QUALITY OF NEXT GENERATION IS DEPENDENT OVER THE CURRENT GENERATION

Everyone has right to dress up the way they like but they don't have the right to objectify anyone and they don't have right to inject idiotic ideas into someone.


Before you objectify someone just think that this is going to be like a butterfly effect. Our words have powers, it's our choice to use them for the correct purpose.

Girls try to support the people who are striving for the welfare of women and please don't stay against this. Again am  saying this, you have the right to dress up the way you like but don't have the right to objectify anyone even if it's you.

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