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Mis-understanding in friendship

                              QUOTE : Understanding is an art and not everyone is an artist

Most of the time fight occurs between friends just because of misunderstanding. Misunderstanding is often understood as one person trying to hurt another person. But, misunderstanding is something that happens between people not in an intention to hurt the opposite one.



Misunderstanding helps in building a strong relationship.




Misunderstanding helps a lot in growing a relationship between friends a stronger one. In a group of friends not all of them are going to have the same mindset as of the others. There occurs lots of fights and miscommunication but you should have a maturity to handle these kind of problems. Fights helps in understanding a person.

Lets consider a group of friends. Not everyone is brought up in the same way. Their opinion varies as per the way they are brought up.

The way they think varies from person to person. Not everyone is going to adjust with each other, not everyone is going to pamper each other but one thing is common they stand for each other and that is called as friendship.

So whenever there arises a misunderstanding one should not hate the other or break the relationship.
First analyse what is the problem.
Think whether the problem is worth to develop a separation, if its worth for separation then just move away from that friend. If not clarify your team mates what is the problem and solve the problem by explaining the situations.

If any member of our group makes a fault just explain them clearly what is their problem instead to going furious towards that person and always remember that no one is perfect but everyone is awesome.

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