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What if it's you or your child? - Part 2

     Few months ago, myself and my friends went to a bakery. It was a normal bakery with no rush in it. Even we were the only customers. So it was easy for us to hear/ see everything that was happening in the bakery. We ordered cauliflower chilly and were indulged in our chatting. A boy between the age 18-20 was chopping the cauliflower. There came the owner of the bakery. The boy was chopping the cauliflowers in somewhat big size. This guy (Owner) started to criticize the boy for chopping the vegetable in a big size by saying, "Hey thadiya (Fat guy) why do you want to put those cauliflowers in your size. Just chop them thinner". After hearing this I wanted to know the reaction of the boy. I can see clearly that he is not comfortable with those words and he seemed embarrassed.
    His boss kept on repeating those words, thinking that he is a stand up comedian. This guy can't tolerate his words over sometime. He said, "If you keep on repeating these words then I will chop you instead of these cauliflowers" by chopping the vegetable in a faster way. But that boss guy, stuffed with a foul soul kept on doing the same.
   Things I was able to observe from this incident

  1. Some people don't even know that they are body shaming the other person. And they don't accept their mistake.
  2. Even-though these body-shamers know that they are hurting the other person they do it just for the sake of making a funny environment (If they think body shaming someone can make the environment fun-filled, then I have no words for them. Check my post https://shoshinblog.blogspot.com/2018/10/laughing-for-low-quality-jokes.html)

If you have any other observation from this experience then share them in the comment section.

These people are going to persistently body shaming someone. Today they might body shame someone but tomorrow they might body shame you. To me body shaming is a sin. 

What would they have done if they were body shammed by someone else?
Would they body shame even their own child?







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