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Letting go will be the best decision

   
      Most of us like some person in our life. We desperately want them in their life, but due to some other reasons, we often tend to hurt that person by expressing our affection. Some, tend to behave rude to hide their pain, some tend to act like nothing happened but all the pain will always be there in some corner of our heart.
     Don't lie to yourself that you are moved on, you are happy without that person, you don't want that person in your life again.
     Everyone endures the pain of segregated from that person. Go through the hell of pain, which can't be stopped. 
     But, if you are seriously affectionate towards that person, then letting go will be the best decision you will ever take. 
     Like you, they might be attracting some other person in their life. You are not needed for them, for the position you think for yourself in their heart. 
     Like you, they too want to spend their life with the person they love. 
     And, you might ask "That's what I too want. Why should I want to give up?".
     If, you are seriously affectionate towards that person, you can do anything to put smile on their face. In simple, what am trying to say is selflessness. Be selfless towards the person you love, this doesn't mean that you be like their slave or anything else. Its like, when you love that person, you will automatically think from the perspective of the person.
     And, understand that once you decided to let go of from this non-mutual affection, be clear to not compete with them. You are in  no way equal to that person and vise versa. Everyone have their own life, if the emotions for the person from you is true then automatically you will reach the destination. If not, man... then wait, you are going to get an awesome life apart from this relationship. And, when you think like you are not happy without that person imagine this picture. 
      (As I don't have that picture, I can explain you)
       A child is asking for the toy he/she wants, and god says no. I won't give this toy to you. And the child starts to cry, but did the child knew that the god had a more beautiful and big toy for that child?

Like this, 
     When you worry for not getting a pearl, then be ready to get a diamond from this universe.
The only super power -Universe

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