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   "Ma...…. I can't handle my hair. Its too tangled" I said to my mom with my eyes in tears and my hair really looking like the fibres of the coconut. She came to me with a smile, "Its not a big deal okay? I can make you hair comfortable don't worry" she said. But her words could not control my tears I just cried like, "maaaaaaaaa……… I cant do anything...…..", haha so funny to recollect the stupid things I have done in my child hood.      Mom massaged my head deeply with coconut oil, so that I smoothly entered into sleep. After an hour when I woke up I can see the magic, yes mom made my hair tangle free one and made a braid, so that it wont get tangled again.     Only you can make everything possible ma     "Amma, am feeling so sleepy please stretch your legs" I said that in a grumpy tone. Again with a smile she stretched her legs. I slept in her legs comfortably when I was 10.      "Amma, am feeling like doing nothing, am fe

          Most of us like some person in our life. We desperately want them in their life, but due to some other reasons, we often tend to hurt that person by expressing our affection. Some, tend to behave rude to hide their pain, some tend to act like nothing happened but all the pain will always be there in some corner of our heart.      Don't lie to yourself that you are moved on, you are happy without that person, you don't want that person in your life again.      Everyone endures the pain of segregated from that person. Go through the hell of pain, which can't be stopped.       But, if you are seriously affectionate towards that person, then letting go will be the best decision you will ever take.       Like you, they might be attracting some other person in their life. You are not needed for them, for the position you think for yourself in their heart.       Like you, they too want to spend their life with the person they love.       And, you might a

When Sarala entered into the conversation she can see everyone is feeling down.  "Hey, all what made you all to feel this much down?" Sarala asked with a feeble voice. "What's there for us to cherish our day?" replied Nithya. Even-though they enjoyed a lot with their friends and the little once, they always had this melancholic feel of not being recognized.       The more they played, the more they starved. So, sometimes they just stay alone to hold their energy.      If it is summer, then its super fine situation to die from thirst.      In the mid of their conversation, Balu came there with his eyes bleeding. He could not even say a single word. With legs dripping blood and a little part of the muscles. He endured that pain. Everyone in their group went through these kind of vulnerable situations.      With the shivering mouth, Nithya asked "What happened Balu?". Even-though she knew the answer, she asked him what was the source for his pai

     Few months ago, myself and my friends went to a bakery. It was a normal bakery with no rush in it. Even we were the only customers. So it was easy for us to hear/ see everything that was happening in the bakery. We ordered cauliflower chilly and were indulged in our chatting. A boy between the age 18-20 was chopping the cauliflower. There came the owner of the bakery. The boy was chopping the cauliflowers in somewhat big size. This guy (Owner) started to criticize the boy for chopping the vegetable in a big size by saying, "Hey thadiya (Fat guy) why do you want to put those cauliflowers in your size. Just chop them thinner". After hearing this I wanted to know the reaction of the boy. I can see clearly that he is not comfortable with those words and he seemed embarrassed.     His boss kept on repeating those words, thinking that he is a stand up comedian. This guy can't tolerate his words over sometime. He said, "If you keep on repeating these words then I wil

Hey guys welcome you all to one more bookish post. This is my experience with this gorgeous book "Pocketful o stories" Am loving them like I always want to carry this book with me. This book is a collection of micro-tales within few lines. Pros :    The book cover looks great    Page quality is super. If you are a person who loves books with great quality pages, then you are going to grab it at the first sight Beginner level romance book  You get a lot of stories in this single book. I don't have any cons to this book, because now am in love with this book. Forever I will be loving this book.  When you feel like to read a book but don't have much time to read, then you can pick this up. Now am reading this book frequently like revising for exams. Am loving this book that much. You can gift this book even to a non-reader who loves romance genre, they will love this. This book holds a big thumbs up from me.

Heyyy all welcome to one more post of our blog. From the past one month am not publishing posts properly. What happened and what is the reason? Reason? Reason? Reason? Reason? Reason? Reason? Reason? Reason? Reason? Reason? Reason? Reason? Reason? Simply nothing. Am in the state of feeling tired by doing nothing 😂 Original answer comes here, nowadays am loving to type in laptop rather than my mobile phone. Because am feeling it little bit uncomfortable to do editing works. But "how can I type post in laptop?", I asked this question to Miss. Ridiculouslyme and she answered "Look Dharu if we want to type post then we must take the laptop, place it on our table. For that we first clean our table and our working space". Even hearing this reply feels difficult for me. Yes I know that am becoming a lazy couch potato, being a self development aspirant I should not behave like this. If you have any ideas to

Hey.... Welcome to this mini world of my thoughts. I want to share something important here, in these recent days am watching a serial's promo. Just with that promo I can understand that the director is trying to bring out the beauty of a sun kissed Indian girl. Yes she looks gorgeous with the melanin rich skin. Being a girl from the dusky shade I love this plot. Yes we need more number of melanin rich actress. How do we dusky girls feel when we see a fair girl as the leading actress?     It feels like, "hey man what do you think about us dusky girls? Do you think that we are not eligible to be admired?". Yes this feels like this. I often had this question. While going through this kind of thoughts obviously we dusky girls are going to love this story to have a dark skinned girl as the leading role. But Here comes 'Why' Guess what's that why. In this serial to make the dusky girl a lead role they made a fair skinned girl as a negative character. &#

Tadaaaa welcome everyone, Its the beginning of march. March brings out all the joy, pain, irritation in simple its a mixture of all emotions. I enjoyed this month in my childhood till 9th standard, because we get lots of leave due to 10th and 12th standard examination. After 9th standard I gave this joy to my juniors as I entered the hard zone of life in which we need to answer all the irritating question even from a stranger, "WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO NEXT?". Life went behind marks for the next three years. Every year this March had something busy, but for me one thing remains constant. Let me share my shades of thoughts in every March While studying 1st standard - Well...… I don't have a clear memory about those days While studying 5th standard - Hurrey, Dharu we are going to complete our primary and we are going to enter the secondary level While studying 6th standard - Hmm... I loved the days in 5th standard when I didn't had Science 1, Scien

"Hey, little one, do you know how much I love you? You might not be my first kid, but every kid is precious to the mother. No matter which gender you will be, I will love you like you are my world. I am enjoying the joy of carrying you. I want you to serve every people surrounding you. I want to see people enjoying their lives because of my child," she said all these things to the child in her. No matter how the child is going to be like she loved it with all her heart. She poured the joy of motherhood into her child. She carried her baby in all the atmospheric conditions. The before her baby enter this world, she said to her baby, "Now I am giving you all the food and breath that you need even before you ask me. But this condition is going to be with you tomorrow. You need only 50% of my support, and the remaining 50% comes from the way you adapt to this environment. As said earlier, I want my child to bring joy in everyone's life". She enjoyed her labor pain i

Incident 1 :          Myself and Swarna we both were heading towards our staff's wedding. As usual she sat behind me and I was driving the scooter. A guy was on his way. We don't know why he was turning towards us and gave a smile. He did that frequently and she was annoyed by his behaviour. Without announcing anything to me, she shouted "MUNNADI PATHU PODA PANNI" (YOU PIG, SEE THE ROAD AND GO).           A hell of thoughts went through my mind. I went to the thought of that he is going to make some street fight with us. But to aggravate my fear, he stopped his bike and started to smile again.          She is uncontrollable at times. Incident 2:        Raji asked Swarna in coimbatore slang, "Endra (this word has two meanings 1- countable 2- my) pencil iruka?" (Do you have my pencil). Without any second thought this buffalo replied "Enra alavuku lam enkita pencil illa onnu than iruku" (I dont have countable pencils, I have only one p